Dear Lissa,
I’ve recently relocated to a new state for a two-year stay, and I’m feeling completely out of my element. The culture, values, and general way of life here are so different from what I’m used to that I sometimes feel like I’ve landed on another planet. I’ve even encountered some hostility from locals who see me as an outsider.
How can I navigate this experience, stay true to myself, and find a sense of community in a place where I feel so disconnected?
Stranger in a Strange Land
Dear Stranger,
Finding yourself in an unfamiliar place can be disorienting—especially when the culture and values around you feel worlds apart from what you know. It’s understandable to feel lost, especially when met with resistance from those who see you as an outsider. But here’s the beauty in your situation—it’s temporary. You have two years to make the most of this experience, and with intention, you can navigate these shifting waters in a way that allows you to grow while staying true to yourself.
Energetically, the world is shifting in ways we’ve never seen before. From planetary alignments to the Earth’s changing frequencies (Schumann Resonance), everything—including us—is in a state of recalibration. This might be an opportunity for you to embrace a period of deep self-reflection, much like the Hermit card in tarot. Taking time to tune into yourself, rather than trying to force external belonging, could lead to unexpected connections and inner transformation.
Not everyone you encounter will be welcoming, and that’s okay. Some people are simply set in their ways. As the saying goes, you can be the juiciest peach on the tree, but some people just don’t like peaches. Don’t waste your energy trying to win them over. Instead, focus on shining your light and immersing yourself in what truly sparks your creativity. Artistic spaces, whether literal or metaphorical, will likely be where you find your kindred spirits. I get the sense of a creative sanctuary—perhaps a historic library or a tucked-away studio—where your energy will resonate with others who see and appreciate you for who you are.
Give yourself grace during this transition. Community isn’t always found immediately, but the more you align with what feeds your soul, the more you’ll attract the right people into your life. Keep shining, and trust that the connections you’re meant to make will find you.
Warmly,
Lissa
